Japanese Greetings and Goodbyes: When to Use Each Phrase

Japanese Greetings and Goodbyes: When to Use Each Phrase

A practical guide to Japanese greetings, polite expressions, and everyday goodbyes.

A greeting in Japanese can do more than open a conversation. It can acknowledge the hour, the place, the distance between two people, or the small ritual of someone leaving home. That is why a phrase that looks like a plain “hello” in a phrasebook can feel warm in one moment and slightly off in another.

You do not need to memorize every variation at once. Start with the expressions below, notice who is speaking to whom, and let the situation guide you. Polite forms are a safe starting point when you are unsure; casual shortcuts make more sense once the relationship is clear.

Greetings and farewells in Japanese
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Common Japanese greetings and goodbyes

JapaneseRomajiMeaning and typical use
挨拶AisatsuGreetings or salutations.
おはようございますOhayō gozaimasuGood morning; polite.
おはようOhayōGood morning; casual, for people you know well.
こんにちはKonnichiwaHello; commonly used from late morning through the afternoon.
こんばんはKonbanwaGood evening.
おやすみなさいOyasuminasaiGood night; a farewell before sleep.
ようこそYōkosoWelcome.
どうもDōmoA flexible casual expression that can mean thanks, hello, or excuse me depending on the moment.
じゃあね / またねJā ne / Mata neBye / See you later; casual.
いらっしゃいませIrasshaimaseWelcome; the greeting staff use for customers in shops and restaurants.
ごめんくださいGomen kudasaiMay I come in? A call used when entering or visiting someone’s home.
よろしくお願いしますYoroshiku onegaishimasuA flexible polite phrase used after an introduction or when asking someone to take care of a matter.
お帰りなさいOkaeri nasaiWelcome back home.
さようならSayōnaraGoodbye; it can sound more final than a casual see-you-later.
さらばSarabaA dramatic or old-fashioned farewell, more familiar from stories than daily conversation.
行ってきますIttekimasuI’m off / I’ll go and come back; said when leaving home.
行ってらっしゃいItterasshaiTake care; the reply to someone leaving home.
気をつけてKi o tsuketeTake care, especially when you want someone to stay safe.

What changes the phrase you choose?

Time matters. Ohayō gozaimasu belongs to the morning, konnichiwa is the familiar daytime greeting, and konbanwa arrives in the evening. The shorter ohayō is natural with friends and family, while the full form keeps a respectful distance with a teacher, colleague, or new acquaintance.

Place matters too. At home, ittekimasu and itterasshai form a small exchange: one person leaves, the other wishes them a safe return. In a shop, irasshaimase comes from the staff, not from the customer. At work, otsukaresama desu is often used to acknowledge someone’s effort and can work as both a greeting and a farewell.

Phone calls follow their own habits. Moshi moshi is casual and fits calls with friends or family. In a formal call, it is more natural to answer with hai and your name. When meeting someone for the first time, hajimemashite opens the introduction, often followed by your name and yoroshiku onegaishimasu.

Small notes that make a big difference

  • Dōmo changes with tone and context. It may be a quick thank-you, a light greeting, or part of a longer expression. For a closer look, see what dōmo can mean in Japanese.
  • Yoroshiku onegaishimasu has no single English equivalent. It carries the sense of asking for goodwill or cooperation, which is why it appears after introductions and requests.
  • Sayōnara is correct, but it is not the automatic choice for every ordinary parting. With friends, jā ne or mata ne often sounds lighter; when you know the next meeting, mata ashita means “see you tomorrow.”
  • Oyasuminasai is for bedtime, not a general evening greeting. Use konbanwa when you meet someone at night and oyasuminasai when you leave for sleep.

Turn the list into real conversation

Pronunciation and writing become easier when the phrases are connected to situations you can picture: leaving the house, entering a shop, calling a friend, or meeting someone for the first time. The politeness behind many of these choices also connects to keigo and formality in Japanese.

Once the greetings feel familiar, build outward with different ways to say thank you, Japanese apology expressions, and more ways to say goodbye. A few phrases used in the right moment will carry you farther than a long list repeated without context.

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Kevin Henrique

Kevin Henrique has written about the Japanese language, culture, anime, games, and travel since founding Suki Desu in 2014. He first visited Japan in 2016.

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