Before meeting someone, Koreans already have an idea of what kind of person they would like to spend their life with. Every detail is important to them, for example, what the person’s personality is like and what their physical appearance is.
They believe that the more a person tries to look good, the more they value the people around them. If girls put effort into their makeup and wear well-kept clothes, for them this is a sign of respect for the person they are meeting.
Men also take care of themselves; they have their grooming routine, are always presentable, always well-dressed, and these are the main criteria for continuing or not the communication with a girl.
Koreans meet their new love in various ways, just like in other places in the world, they find their new relationship at school, at work, or in a café.
A more commonly used way for them to find someone special is through acquaintances or mutual friends, blind dates in groups, where they arrange for a group of friends of a guy to go out with a group of friends of a girl.
In addition, there are matchmaking agencies for people who wish to get married, candidates are generally divided by age, appearance, and income among other things, so many dates are made through these agencies.
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How do Koreans express their feelings?
They dedicate a lot of attention to their partners because for them it is very important to know that they are loved. They are always with their phones in hand and love to send messages, always wishing good morning! or good night!
They send messages all the time and always ask what they are doing? This type of message shows that they care for each other; they always worry about maintaining frequent contact with their partner despite working hard, dedicating their time to their girlfriends/boyfriends.
Koreans feel the need to talk about their feelings to others, treat their boyfriends/girlfriends with tenderness, make cute decorations with their partner’s photo, and buy matching pieces of clothing, which are easy to find.
In South Korea, it is common to see couples wearing matching outfits, like long coats, for example. Korean men are loyal to women and treat them very well.
They open doors, carry bags, and accompany them home after a romantic date and like to give them gifts. To give you an idea, in Korea, there is a flower kiosk on every corner and there are also special machines that sell flowers.
Koreans also show their romantic side by buying a ring; they do this on the hundredth day when the relationship becomes more serious, but this ring is not an engagement ring. South Koreans also make a point of celebrating the anniversary of dating and elaborate this special day, like having a romantic candlelight dinner.
Korean couple behaving in public
Even though they love to show their love in public, Koreans behave in a more shy manner, showing their respect especially for the elders, so no passionate kisses and constant hugs in public.
So what is allowed to do in public? It is allowed to hold hands, put an arm around the partner’s shoulder, give discreet pecks, and caress cheeks, and the rest stays between the couple hidden from the eyes of others.
Of course, nothing mentioned in this article is a rule; each person is different, and some are already losing the habit and shyness in public. Nothing in this article is 100% accurate; consider this before making any criticism.
Romantic Dates in Korea
How do romantic dates happen? Usually, they go to a café, go to the movies, or just walk down the street. Many establishments are adapted for the couple in love.
Some restaurants, for example, have walls where you can write something, so couples usually write their names; at the cinema, they serve large cocktails with two straws and portions for two. Something quite interesting is that a good part of the entertainment in South Korea is geared towards couples.
Who pays the bill? Well, it is very likely that the man pays the bill the first time, but it is not a rule, and then they alternate; one day the man pays, the next day the woman pays, everything agreed upon between the two. To avoid falling into a routine, they usually enlist romantic dates for more interesting outings.
In order to show others how happy they are as a couple, they post on social media the photos they take together, the famous (selfies). They do this all the time because they are very proud of their relationships and want to show the world.
It is interesting to note that many single Koreans live with their parents, so they may have a curfew, even when they are adults, especially women.
Korean parents can also intervene wanting to put an end to the relationship if they do not like the person. Many children cannot go against their parents, so it may be that the relationship really comes to an end. Of course, not all parents are extremely strict.
What about sleeping at each other’s houses? Koreans are conservative; a couple that is not married should not sleep in the same bed or room, especially since parents will not allow it. For Koreans, family is very important, and it is normal for them to always have contact, especially with their mothers daily. Therefore, in-laws must be honored and treated with respect.
Interesting, isn’t it? These are some interesting curiosities about dating in South Korea.
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