Do you know Hostess Club? In Japan they are called kyabakura (キャバクラ) which can be translated as Cabaret. In these bars men usually interact with a hostess, being a beautiful and sexy girl. In these bars you spend your time drinking while chatting with this beautiful girl about everyday things or things that interest you. They are paid to laugh at your jokes, listen to your problems, look at you and show interest in you.
Unlike other Western bars, a Japanese Hostess is usually full of rules. It is not common to have contact with the girl or know her real name. They are like Geishas, present only to entertain without any type of prostitution, sensual dancing, nudity, massage or touching. There are also Hostesses for women with male hosts.
Read also: Geisha - Who are they really? History and Curiosities
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The men who usually frequent these places, in addition to paying a fee to talk to the girl, they usually buy her drinks. These girls also earn commissions for those drinks that they manage to sell, most of the time they order non-alcoholic drinks to be able to work normally.
There are other versions of Hostess clubs where men can touch the girls (from the waist up) and have hot conversations. These places are called "seku-kyabakura" or "ichya-kyabakura. They are not common as the government prohibits these types of establishments. However, there are many establishments and bars with sensual dances, strips, and even a bar in this style where you can touch the breasts of the hostesses. There are also "Snack Bars" where girls are encouraged to flirt and serve male customers, thus attracting more and more lonely men.
There are several services of the type to end the Japanese shortage. It wasn't just the geisha of the past or the current hostess, the Maid-Café, Cosplay-Café and even services to meet girls without sex, just to go to Karaoke or cinema take place in Japan.
Some men end up spending up to $30,000 a night just on expensive drinks or gifts for their hostesses. The salary of a hostess is great, they usually make more than 3,000 yen an hour.
The Different types of Hostess in Japan
Let's now see the types of hostess clubs you can find in Japan. Each of these types of hostess clubs in Japan offers a different experience, reflecting the variety and richness of the adult entertainment culture in the country.
Kyabakura (キャバクラ) - Hostess club
The Kyabakura, abbreviation for "cabaret club", is the most common type of hostess club in Japan. In these places, hostesses are hired to entertain customers with pleasant conversations, drinks, and occasionally karaoke. The interaction is quite controlled, with strict rules about physical contact and the duration of visits.
Girl's Bar (ガールズバー)
The Girl's Bars are a more casual and affordable version of hostess clubs. In these bars, the employees also serve drinks and chat with the customers, but the atmosphere is less formal and more like a conventional bar. Customers can sit at the counter and interact with the waitresses, who are dressed more casually.
Lounge Bar
Lounge Bars are similar to Kyabakura, but they tend to be more sophisticated and expensive. These places usually attract a more mature clientele, offering a quieter and exclusive atmosphere. The hostesses in these clubs are known for their elegance and skills in maintaining deep and engaging conversations.
Snack
The term "Sunakku", which is a transliteration of "snack", refers to the most traditional type of Snack Bar. These establishments are usually small, managed by a "mama-san" (the bar owner who often also acts as the main hostess). They offer a cozy atmosphere, almost like an extension of someone's living room, where regular customers come to drink, chat, and often sing karaoke.
Aiseki-ya (相席屋) = Shared-table restaurant
Aiseki-ya is a variation of Snack Bar that focuses on providing customers the chance to meet and talk to new people. The term "aiseki" means "sharing a table". In these establishments, customers are usually grouped at tables with strangers, facilitating new friendships and social interactions. Aiseki-ya often charges a fixed fee that includes unlimited drinks.
Members Club (メンバーズクラブ)
Members Clubs are exclusive and often require membership for entry. They offer an even higher level of privacy and exclusivity, with highly trained hostesses who provide personalized attention. These clubs are frequently visited by high-level businessmen and celebrities.
Royal Salon
The Royal Salon is a luxury variant within the world of hostess clubs, offering high-class services in an extremely sophisticated environment. These establishments focus on maximum discretion and exclusivity, with hostesses chosen for their appearance, education, and conversational skills.
Seku-Kyabakura (セクキャバ)
The name "Seku-Kyabakura" is an abbreviation of "Seifuku Kyabakura", where "seifuku" means school uniform. This type of club is a more adult variation of the traditional kyabakura, where the hostesses wear uniforms that resemble school outfits. Interaction in these clubs is usually more physical and provocative, although still within legal limits and with clear rules to ensure the safety and comfort of everyone.
Icha-Kyabakura (イチャキャバ)
"Icha-Kyabakura", also known as "Icha-kyaba", is a variant where hostesses engage in more affectionate and intimate interactions with customers, such as caresses and hugs, always in a controlled manner. This type of club focuses on creating a more intimate and personal atmosphere, offering an experience that simulates a romantic encounter.
Dohan-Kyabakura (同伴キャバクラ) - Accompanied Cabaret
In a "Dohan-Kyabakura", hostesses can accompany clients outside the establishment for dinners or events before visiting the club together. This is known as "dohan" (accompaniment) and usually incurs additional costs. This practice is popular among regular customers who want a more extended and personal experience.
Hade-Kyabakura (派手キャバクラ) = Flashy Hostess Club
"Hade-Kyabakura" refers to clubs that are more extravagant or flashy in their design and approach. These clubs often stand out for their opulent decorations and exuberant performances, aiming to create a more vivid and memorable entertainment experience.
The lie behind the Hostess
The girls are just doing their job, but it's undeniable that men end up having fantasies, or being happy with the girls' work. Many Japanese are needy and need people to listen to their problems and praise them, that's where the hostesses of the Hostess Clubs come in. They often say things like:
- You are so cool;
- You are smart;
- You are handsome.
- You are so mature;
It's just that in reality they don't even care about you, they're just doing their job. Sometimes it can happen that a girl is being honest, some even managed to win over girls who worked in Hostesses. Others manage to hire her for extra services ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) after working hours. The fact is that many men end up falling in love with hostess girls and as many are rich, they end up getting many expensive gifts.
Working at a Hostess Club is not considered a bad thing. Most of the girls who work there say it's the same as being a waitress in a restaurant.” The only thing a hostess does is chat, sit and serve drinks. This job requires more psychology than maintaining morality.
Is that you? What do you think of this service? Would you dare to attend one? Do you really think the people who frequent this place are needy or are they just looking for a place to drink and chat? We appreciate your comments and shares.
