The Meaning of koi suru [恋する] In Japanese
恋する
こいする
Romaji: koi suru
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What does 恋する mean?
Translation and Meaning
to fall in love, to be in love
Definition
What does 恋する mean? It denotes falling in love or being in love in a romantic sense, often with a sense of longing or infatuation directed at a person; used in literary or poetic registers and in everyday speech when describing developing romantic feelings.
Type
Verb (suru-verb, サ変動詞)
Stroke Order
Meanings
- to develop romantic attraction toward a particular person
- to experience a romantic feeling that may lead to a relationship
- often used in literature and media to depict the moment of awakening in love
Etymology
Phonology: 恋 is read with the kun’yomi koi, a noun meaning romantic love, and it combines with する to form a verb expressing the action of experiencing love; this noun-plus-suru construction yields the modern meaning of to fall in love, illustrating how a content word can be turned into a dynamic predicate in contemporary Japanese.
Composition
- 恋 = romance, love, longing; する = a verb that turns a noun into an action, here forming a verb meaning the act of loving or falling in love
Usage
Used in casual conversation and formal writing to express developing romantic feelings; with 恋をする indicating falling in love with someone, and 恋する often describing a general romantic vibe rather than a specific action; in formal or literary contexts, other phrasings like 恋に落ちる may be preferred for idiomatic emphasis.
💡 Tips
Mnemonic: remember that 恋 is love and する means to do; to recall the meaning, picture your heart actively doing love, moving toward someone you like.
Variations
- 恋をする — koi o suru — fall in love
- 愛する — ai suru — to love (deep, long-term)
- 思いを寄せる — omoi o yoseru — to have feelings for someone
- 恋愛 — ren’ai — love affair, romantic love (noun)
- 恋に落ちる — koi ni ochiru — to fall in love (idiom)
Words with the same Kanji
Example Phrases
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職場の同僚に恋する私は、今日も頑張る。Shokuba no dōryō ni koi suru watashi wa, kyō mo ganbaru.I’m the type of person who falls in love with a coworker, and I’ll work hard today as well.Lista:
- 職場の同僚に (shokuba no dōryō ni) – to a coworker
- 恋する (koi suru) – to fall in love
- 私は (watashi wa) – I
- 今日も (kyō mo) – today as well
- 頑張る (ganbaru) – work hard
Here 「恋する」 means ‘to fall in love (with someone)’ and に marks the target person; 私は marks the topic.

