Do you know hostess club? In Japan they are called kyabakura (コャバクラ) which can be translated as Cabaret. In these bars men usually interact with a hostess, who is a beautiful and sexy girl. In these bars you spend your time drinking while talking to this beautiful girl about everyday things or interest. They are paid to laugh at their jokes, listen to their problems, look and show interest in you.
Unlike other Western bars, a Japanese Hostess is often full of rules. It’s not common to have contact with the girl or know her real name. They are like the Geishas, are present only to entertain without any kind of prostitution, sensual dance, nudity, massage or touch. There are also Hostess for women with male anfritrions.
Curiosities about the Hostess
Men who usually attend these places, in addition to paying a fee to talk to the girl they usually pay for drinks for her. These girls also get commissions for these drinks they can sell, most of them sometimes they ask for alcohol-free drinks to be able to work normally.
There are other versions of Hostess where men can touch the girls (from the waist up) and have hot conversations. These locations are called seku-kyabakura” or “ichya-kyabakura. They are not usually common, as the government prohibits these types of establishments. But there are many establishments and bars with sexy dances, strips and even a bar in this style where you can grope the six of the hosts. There are also snack bar where girls are encouraged to flirt and serve male customers, thus attracting more and more needy men.
There are several services of its kind to end the Japanese shortage. It wasn’t just the geishas of the past or the current hostess, the Maid-Café, Cosplay-Café and even services against girls without sex, just to go karaoke or cinema take place in Japan.
Some men end up spending up to $30,000 a night only on expensive drinks or gifts for hosts. A hostess’s salary is great, they usually make more than 3,000 yen an hour.
The lie behind the Hostess
Girls are just doing their job, but it’s undeniable to say that men end up having fantasies, or being happy with the girls’ work. Many Japanese are needy and need people to listen to their problems and praise them, then enter hostess of hostess clubs. They usually say things like:
- You’re so cool;
- You’re smart;
- You’re beautiful;
- You’re so mature;
Only in reality they’re not even there caring for you, they’re just doing their job. Sometimes it can happen that a girl is being honest, some even managed to win over girls who worked at Hostess. Others manage to hire it for extra services () after hours. The fact is that many men end up falling in love with hostess girls and as many are rich, they end up gaining several expensive gifts.
Working at a Hostess Club is not considered a bad thing. Most of the girls who work there say it’s the same thing as being a restaurant waitress.” The only thing a hostess does is talk, sit and serve drinks. This work requires more psychology than maintaining morality.
What about you? What do you think of this service? Would you have the guts to go to one? Do you really think the people who go to this place are in need or just look for a place to drink and talk? We appreciate your comments and shares.